I have done the math of the Dysfunctional, abusive Family, child abuse for decades due to what I experienced first hand.
Like it or not, its what it All comes down to, the Accounting. The accounting most people don't do because they are too busy believing that $$ is the real economy. But, it isn't.
The Real bill is Due. And its going to be very painful.
The Real Economy has been health and nature over the past 5 plus decades that has been ignored for debt $$.
There's NO question about it, We are in a LOT of trouble.
So many people in on sending vulnerable, "poor" bodies to the meat grinder as long as they are making $$. The decades old practice of $$ being obviously illegitimate, begotten by missing the goal as far as you can miss it, and yet, striking out is the new normal.
All I thought about since the 70s was math, accounting and science. Those around me so blatantly missed the mark, failed then, on top of that, failed again and again. Failed on top of failing over and over and over.
I will never stop talking about the Inverted "family" and neighbors I was surrounded by for decades since the 70s.
We hear about SO much abuse today, endless wars, Corporate Government corruption, reports of injuries from the Jab, Dupont poisoning the world with PFOA, the BP oil disaster, Fukushima, 9/11, nuclear threat, etc.
The fact is, NONE of this would be happening if people acted like Adults and defended their children over the decades instead of the bar being set SO LOW of the quality of "parenting" over the decades.
I am tired of saying, the "family" is the micro of the macro. And if "parents" are incapable of giving their children the treatment they NEED to be healthy, self actualized people, then you need to look no further.
Yet, over the decades the most vulnerable being Failed beyond comprehension by their own "Families" and yet, all I hear today are "adult" people complaining about the Failure of Fauci, the CDC, the FDA, "health care", the WHO.
FACT, the fact that children have been abused and neglected by "parents" for more than 5 decades was a clue!
Do we even hear about people abused by "parents?" I don't. How can we when the spotlight is taken by Adult Children?
Does anyone know how a Healthy Family system is supposed to function?
Why no focus on Failed families? I hear about Government and Corporations failing people but, those who should love and protect children the most, nothing.
The nerve endings of society has been burned off by the most vulnerable being completely silenced. We might here something about child abuse but it, in NO way, over shadows Adult Child abuse.
I read so many books and programs on healthy, dysfunctional, abusive relationships since the late 70s into the early 80s. One program I bought, I still have it btw, is Barbara DeAngelis' Making Love Work program 1994. Complete with VHS tapes, cassette tapes, 8 in total, 1 I think I lost, plus a work book to write down exercises.
In the workbook she showed a drawing of 2 figures walking toward each other pulling wagons behind them of their Emotional Baggage.
Yes, that's what happens when most people enter into marriage. They end up Parenting their spouse instead of being their spouse. This is due to the number of Children is Adult bodies that has Plagued our society as has been depicted in the Depp/Heard trial in the last 5 weeks, minus 1 week off.
Too many people have been ignoring a very serious problem for a very long time and the consequences are not going to be pretty.
Instead of 2 people coming together with their wagons full of Emotional Baggage, we have an entire society trying to relate from positions of deprivation and emotionall deficiency.
The FACT is, most people cannot afford the other. And I'm not talking about $$.
I'm talking about the REAL economy.
Too many people have worshiped $$ so much they have completely overlooked their own inner wealth. What they are made of, what they have inside of them, the wealth that nature gave them that NO one told them was valuable.
I've watched those around me for decades completely miss the capability they have in them and give their power away to man made debt notes. Instead of learning how to relate better, how to listen, be more emotionally giving or even standing up for one’s rights, people gave their power away to man made debt notes while their fitness atrophied.
I can't help but worry when things start to really go south, more than it already has,, when the truth really gets revealed, when nature and health show what's real, and all the Man Made crap burns away. Those who held a firm grip to the fake man made and those who chose nature made won't have as hard of a time.
People are NO different than crops, flowers, trees, gardens that MUST be cultivated to fruition. To their full ripeness. Too much aborting the completion of seeing children through their healthy development.
The Oligarchs haven't been the only ones Skimping on human health. "Families", yes "PARENTS" have been doing a Great job working For the Criminal Corp Gov against their own children.
Just like Big Tobacco, Big Pharma, Big Banks, Big Tech, the "Elites", have ALL been working decade after decade to extract all the "power", control and debt notes for themselves at the expense of the public, the family has become the EXACT same thing. The Exact OPPOSITE of how it should function. Not that Corps and Gov are supposed to function a y other way than how they do, the people have just bought into the LIE that they are looking out for them when the people were thrown under the bus decades ago.
They only thought it was happening to the "poor". That was ok. Now it isn’t. Now that it’s reached them who will stand for them? They didn't stand up for the "poor". They didn't plant a garden. They didn't even protect their children or see them through to their full fruition.